therapy for highly sensitive queers, anxious misfits, and over-achieving badasses
Empowering women to set boundaries, avoid burnout, and embrace their authentic messy selves
tele-therapy across Oregon
YOU’VE GOT YOUR SHIT TOGETHER - on the outside
But, inside things are slowly falling apart
You’re the responsible one, the overachiever—whether you're in the courtroom, or the classroom. People count on you, and you hold it together. But it’s getting old.
Therapy? Been there, done that. It helped, but here you are, worn out. Exhausted by perfectionism, people-pleasing, and that constant low-level anxiety that won’t quit.
Maybe you’re navigating a queer identity in a world that doesn’t quite see you. Or maybe you're a medical professional, overwhelmed by the emotional toll of patient care or the pressure to always perform at your best. You've mastered the art of looking like you’ve got it all handled, but inside, it’s a different story.
The weight of it all is real, and it’s not getting any lighter..
Own Your Sensitivity. Embrace Your True Self.
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Own Your Sensitivity. Embrace Your True Self. 〰️
Hello, fellow highly sensitive, people pleasing, perfectionist
I see you
Tired of:
* Feeling like a chameleon?
* Not being sure where you belong?
* Overcommitting - even when you don’t have the time (or energy)?
* Going along with things to avoid conflict?
* Saying “I’m fine” when you actually feel like hell?
If you're ready for change, you're in the right place. Like so many women and gender rebels, I know how easy it is to shrink yourself, silence your voice, and lose touch with your own needs. I work with folks who struggle with anxiety, social anxiety, perfectionism, and finding their authentic selves.
Together, we’ll break through the stories that have kept you stuck—whether it’s complex trauma, childhood trauma, body issues, imposter syndrome, internalized biphobia, or old family messages. We’ll uncover the roots of your anxiety and fear, build your ‘No’ muscle, and quiet the negative thoughts that have been running the show.
It’s time to say fuck it, and paint outside the lines. Rediscover the silly, fun parts of yourself hiding in the shadows. It’s okay to have a light heart. It’s okay to take up space and step into your power.
Own your truth. Stand firm in your wisdom. Live a life of imperfect authenticity.
Are You a Highly Sensitive Queer?
Hi, I’m Tori Corbett,
Do you live and love outside the box? Are you a highly sensitive queer, or questioning your identity?
As a straight-passing, highly sensitive, cis-gender (she/her) Bi+ woman, I know what it’s like to feel like an outsider. With over 20 years as a licensed therapist, I specialize in sex-positive, LGBTQIA+, and kink-affirming therapy. I’m passionate about supporting highly sensitive folks—especially women—who challenge societal norms while dealing with anxiety and overwhelm.
If you're a highly sensitive, overachieving, burnt-out professional who feels like you don’t quite fit in, I’ve got you.
Whether you’re openly queer—pansexual, bisexual, ace, bi-curious, gender fluid, or exploring your sexuality—let’s challenge the old beliefs that keep you stuck and help you step into your authentic self.
Deep Dive Into Your Healing Journey
Embrace playful joy and silliness
Does Therapy Really Help?
In a word: Yes! The majority of people I work with experience significant and lasting improvements in their well-being and quality of life.
After diving deep into your experiences, you’ll start to uncover the root causes of your struggles—whether it's old trauma, internalized beliefs, or patterns that have kept you stuck for years. Together, we won’t just treat the surface symptoms; we’ll explore the underlying issues that are holding you back, spending time where it matters.
After our work together, you’ll be able:
Trust yourself and feel more confident in your beautifully messy life.
Feel secure in your sexuality, no matter whose hand you hold.
Decide who deserves to know about your queer identity—on your terms.
Accept yourself with genuine compassion and understanding.
Embrace playful joy and silliness.
Give far fewer fucks about what others think.
We might be a good fit if:
You’re an anxious, over-achieving perfectionist who’s ready to make changes.
You’ve been in therapy before and want deep connection-based counseling.
You’re a curious soul, open to a bit of woo mixed with current mental health research.
You’re committed to trauma-informed therapy and want to work on difficult experiences, knowing it can be hard as hell.
You’re willing to spend time outside of therapy doing things like reading and journaling.
You’re ready to examine the impact of patriarchal hustle culture and want to untangle old messages.
You’re okay working with a therapist who curses like a sailor.
We might not be a good fit if:
This is your first time in individual therapy.
Working on your trauma history could destabilize your daily life.
You’re at risk for suicide or currently engaging in disordered eating or other forms of self-harm.
You need ongoing mental health support outside of therapy sessions.
You’re looking for couples or family therapy.
You want short-term, analytical counseling, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
You’re not interested in exploring systemic issues such as racism, sexism, fat phobia, etc.
Your values don’t align with the LGBTQIA+ queer community.